In your comment below, both of you need to explain who picked the argument and about what topic, but both of you need to express your technique in attempting to encourage the other partner to feel the way you do.
Detail any hiccups, any issues, and how you remained calm, rational, and even a little manipulative (if applicable).
Then, comment on someone else's argument rationale and explain how you might have approached their argument differently.
Post by midnight, 3/21.